Was posted on Friday, March 5, 2010 At 12:31 AM
"The Wife Is The Neck."
Changed this neglected blog's skin for the umpteenth time. I shall open the new chapter with a hadith.=)
Rasulullah s.a.w said: "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion/piety. So u should marry the religious woman otherwise you will be a loser."(sahih Bukhari)
Getting the prerequisite right is an important step towards making a success of marriage. Regarding the most important quality to search for in a prospective spouse, Rasulullah said that it is in the woman's piety. In Jannah every woman will be so beautiful that at the first glance upon the wife a man will be so struck by her beauty that he will stand just staring at her for fourty years. The most important thing is to choose a wife who will make easy for you the path to Paradise. Usually people see three things in a woman for marriage. Her wealth, beauty and lineage/family. But these things end with the life of this world. If you want to have these things for eternity then you have to make it to Jannah. If the man is described as the head of household, the woman is described as its neck. The neck turns the head anyway it wants. You want a wife who turns you towards Jannah.
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